In Malay culture, as in some other cultures, gifts are exchanged during engagement (bertunang) and marriage solemnization (nikah) ceremony. The gifts (hantaran) are usually decorated and fashioned into beautiful shapes. It is called as "gubahan". The number of gifts to be exchanged are agreed to before the ceremony, and traditionally odd numbers are chosen. For our engagement day, 5 vs 7 gifts were selected.
For him:
-Sirih junjung
-Sejadah
-Cupcakes
-Chocolates
-Perfume set
-Baju melayu, songket, baju melayu buttons
-Fruits
For her:
-Ring
-Shoes
-Perfume set
-Telekung, sejadah
-Kain baju lace
About "gubahan" for "hantaran", I wouldn't have engaged with the service of gubahan professional either a freelancer or someone working in the bridal industry. Because I've decorated my "hantaran" by myself : ) I just bought 7 round gold trays at Small Garden with lace tray cloth which is in brown gold colour (bought at SSF), some artificial flowers which is in blue colour and also the basket with ribbons. The tray looks like modern tray and very lightweight if compared to traditional tray that made of tembaga.
For him:
-Sirih junjung
-Sejadah
-Cupcakes
-Chocolates
-Perfume set
-Baju melayu, songket, baju melayu buttons
-Fruits
For her:
-Ring
-Shoes
-Perfume set
-Telekung, sejadah
-Kain baju lace
About "gubahan" for "hantaran", I wouldn't have engaged with the service of gubahan professional either a freelancer or someone working in the bridal industry. Because I've decorated my "hantaran" by myself : ) I just bought 7 round gold trays at Small Garden with lace tray cloth which is in brown gold colour (bought at SSF), some artificial flowers which is in blue colour and also the basket with ribbons. The tray looks like modern tray and very lightweight if compared to traditional tray that made of tembaga.
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Round gold tray |
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Lace tray cloth |
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Artificial flowers, blue and gold ribbons, blue soft tissue paper as the basket cover |
For the ribbon, I learned some video tutorials on how to make a ribbon bow by YouTube. Here are the links.
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Tadaaaaa!! A ribbon bow done~ |
And, here are the pictures of "hantaran" for him.
Sirih junjung decorated by myself |
Sejadah |
Cupcakes (designed by me) (ordered from http://sugar4sugar.blogspot.com) |
Just added with cadbury choclairs plus ordered from my friend, Iza |
Perfume set |
Baju melayu, songket and baju melayu buttons |
Fruits |
Thus, the DIY project is successfully done. I'm so happy and also discovered that it was hard work but ultimately rewarding~! ^_^
And the pictures below is the gifts for her. I meant for me :D
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Ring |
Shoes |
Perfume set |
Telekung and sejadah |
Kain baju lace |
Okay, hope everyone is super enjoy when watching this entry. Let's have a love story that will never end. x.o.x.o :P ~ ❤
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