Hi bloggers especially to all lovelies bride-to-be,
Just got a bad news. My friend just broke up with her bf. I just want to give her a support through this blog.
To a friend,
You know, the hardest part of breaking up is to move on. To let go of all your dreams and hopes, to not to think about your lost love before you fall asleep, to wake up from your sleep only to find that the person you love so dearly is no longer yours, to feel the emptiness, to look at the other couples and reminiscing the good old days when you were both happily in love.
But time heals. Time heals almost everything.
It is okay to let go. If your needs are not met, if there's no more mutual affection, if the feelings aren't mutual anymore, if there's no respect between the two of you, then the best thing to do is to let go. You have to let go, hard I know, but you just have to.
I used to believe that between the person I love and the person who loves me more, I'd prefer to be with the person who I love. Wrong, dear. I've learned that you just have to love yourself first before you could ever love anybody else. And the feelings just have to be mutual. You have to love the person who loves you back. And most importantly, who can respect you. Loving is nothing without respecting each other.
So now, let's face it. Moving on is hard, but staying, knowing that the person who used to love you is no longer in love with you, is harder. Don't make things harder by holding on to what has already been gone. You have to let it go. It is okay. You will be fine eventually, time heals. Cliche how it sounds, but true enough.
If you are not meant to be together, you will not be together. As simple as that. Because Allah knows best.
I hope you are strong enough to move forward. Stay open, cause who knows, lightning could strike :) Life is always better with a smile~ ❤
To those who miss someone so terribly, this song is just for you. Enjoy listening!
*Padahal sy rinduuuuu ahhhhhhhh kat dia >.<"
"The silence isn't so bad, til I look at my hands and feel sad, cause the spaces between my fingers are right where yours fit perfectly" :')
3 hearts:
she's so lucky to have u as friend dear~ ^_^
and btw, i love the song!! so meaningful.. ;D
so sweet. rasa nak nangis sebab time i putus cinta dulu, my friends pun cakap yang sama. what ever it is, let it go. times heals. :)
Sheila: i luv the song too :)
Atiqah: betul tu..just let go.. xyah pk ape2 dah.. :)
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