As promised in my last entry, today I'm going to talk about how to win mother-in-law's heart :)
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Most mothers are pleased by something as minor as a kind word being said to them. This is because they require special care, as their lives are empty due to the loneliness they feel, which makes them think that they have no use in life. Therefore, it is especially important that their children are merciful and understanding towards them. They should make them feel important and involve them in certain matters and decisions, in order to make them feel that their opinion is important, and that they are valued and needed.
How can a wife win the pleasure of her mother in-law?
By using kind words when talking to her: Allah said: "Have you not considered how Allah presents an example, making a good word like a good tree, whose root is firmly fixed and its branches high in the sky? It produces fruit all the time, by permission of its Lord. And Allah presents examples for the people that perhaps they will be reminded."
By honoring her request and act like you are her own daughter: "Aishah reported that the Prophet S.A.W said: “Whenever forbearance is added to anything, it adorns it; and whenever it is withdrawn from something, it leaves it defective."
By gifting her: Abu Hurairah reported that the Messenger of Allah said: "Exchange gifts; you would thereby remove hatred towards one another; and never belittle any gift you give your neighbour, even if it is (something as minor as) the hoof of a sheep."
By treating her kindly like your own mother: A wife should have tolerance towards her mother in-law, especially during the first month of the marriage, until a wife wins her pleasure and therefore becomes one of those who are beloved to her mother in-law and this would make the entire family love her as well.
How can a wife win the pleasure of her mother in-law?
By using kind words when talking to her: Allah said: "Have you not considered how Allah presents an example, making a good word like a good tree, whose root is firmly fixed and its branches high in the sky? It produces fruit all the time, by permission of its Lord. And Allah presents examples for the people that perhaps they will be reminded."
By honoring her request and act like you are her own daughter: "Aishah reported that the Prophet S.A.W said: “Whenever forbearance is added to anything, it adorns it; and whenever it is withdrawn from something, it leaves it defective."
By gifting her: Abu Hurairah reported that the Messenger of Allah said: "Exchange gifts; you would thereby remove hatred towards one another; and never belittle any gift you give your neighbour, even if it is (something as minor as) the hoof of a sheep."
By treating her kindly like your own mother: A wife should have tolerance towards her mother in-law, especially during the first month of the marriage, until a wife wins her pleasure and therefore becomes one of those who are beloved to her mother in-law and this would make the entire family love her as well.
P dot S: Off to KL now. Got an interview again. *Doakan saya ye~ ❤
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alhamdulillah..saye bersyukur dapat mak mertua yang sayangkan saye n mudah tuk saya melayannye..:)
hehe. alhamdulillah. dan awk sgt beruntung :))
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