Is it true?

Hi readers,

It's 5.00 in the morning, here. I'm still kicking and rolling on my bed. Erghh, I can't sleep but I found this. Is it true guys??

This entry is totally related to what I'm experiencing now. *Tsk Tsk~

Tanda-Tanda Lelaki Tersinggung & Marah 

1. Masam Muka

2. Buat Tak Tahu

3. Diam Seribu Bahasa  

4. Matikan Telefon @ Tak Balas Sms / Tak Angkat Hp 

5. Keluar Rumah Tanpa Beritahu (Kalau Lelaki Tu Dah Kahwin ) 

ANGRY~!! (I just imagined his face right now, might be his face is the same as Rock Lee~! Lulz)

For me,

If someone really loves you, they will never give you a reason to doubt it. But whatever the situation maybe, don’t ever be cold to someone you care about, indifference and unanswerable question hurts more than angry words.

P dot S: Marah itu tandanya sayang tau! Sila senyum, please~ ❤

Senyum eh??

 

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Solemnization veil

Hi bloggers!

A veil is the finishing touch on the perfect wedding dress. To veil or not to veil is a question that many brides ask themselves when it comes to accessorizing their wedding dress. Bridal wedding veils are a traditional addition to your wedding attire, but with so many different styles available. These days veils come in plain, embroidered, ribbon or lace edged, pearl or crystal beading and lace. There are many different lengths of bridal veils available, from short styles to long length veils. 

The Length

For my solemnization veil, I just wanted to use chiffon shawl and veil and patched some laces with minor beading and for sure, it is just a short veil. I think, a short wedding veil is a great look we can add to our wedding style. Enough to look very simple and nice.

So, for solemnization, my veil and shawl (chiffon but it's not tudung lycra with awning as shown in the pictures) will be inspired by this:

#1

#2

#3

#4 with diamond edged

#5 patched with lace

#6 I luv the shawl & I want it but without awning~

And, I'm so in loveeeeee with this veil and its inner with minor beading!! Wait wait ..... Surprise!!

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Tadaaaaaaa!!!

#7 Ohh! Please ignore the MASK ;P

Luv the inner, but it's okay if wearing it with the chiffon shawl right??? What say you???~ ❤

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The Rule!

Good afternoon & hi readers, 

I found "43 pantang larang bakal pengantin". Just wanna share this info. 

Rule~

Apabila telah ditetapkan hari perkahwinan bermakna bermulalah pantang larang buat bakal mempelai itu. Apa yang ditetapkan harus diikuti untuk kebaikan diri mereka. Ia bukanlah menjadi kewajipan tetapi sudah menjadi satu budaya dalam masyarakat melayu. Walaupun bakal pengantin zaman sekarang jarang disebutkan perkara ini kepada mereka, tidak rugi jika pantang larang yang dinyatakan sesuai dan boleh diamalkan. 

1. Jangan keluar dengan pasangan selama 40 hari sebelum diijabkabul untuk mengelakkan tohmahan masyarakat. Selain itu ia bertujuan untuk mengawal nafsu. Ia juga untuk menimbulkan perasaan rindu dendam. Perasaan yang timbul akan membuatkan wajah pengantin lebih berseri.

2. Jangan tidur dirumah orang takut terkena ilmu. Ia juga untuk menjaga nama baik keluarga.

3. Jangan bebas keluar kemana-mana kerana takut disantau oleh mereka yang mempunyai niat tidak baik. 

4. Jangan makan nasi dengan gulai berkuah beberapa bulan sebelum naik pelamin bagi mengelakkan perut buncit.

5. Elakkan makan ulam yang berbau busuk seperti petai dan jering.

6. Jangan bercermin terutama selepas maghrib ke atas bagi mengelak diri dari perkara sihir. 

7. Jangan membuang air kecil dan air besar serentak di dalam air contohnya dalam sungai, kolah kerana ia boleh melemahkan organ seks.

8. Elakkan minum air bergas kerana ia mempunyai gula dan gas yang tinggi dan boleh menyebabkan kencing manis.

9. Kurangkan makan makanan yg manis kerana jika terkena kencing manis, lelaki tersebut menghadapi masalah berat ketika bersama. 

10. Elakkan mandi malam kerana tidak elok untuk sendi-sendi. 

11. Kawal makan iaitu sekali makan setiap hari (mengikut sesetengah adat).

12. Kaum lelaki elakkan memakai seluar dalam yang ketat pada waktu malam dan tidur meniarap kerana tidak bagus untuk organ seks kerana darah tidak mengalir.

13. Elakkan terlalu banyak makan makanan laut kerana ia mengandungi banyak toksid.

14. Tiga bulan sebelum berkahwin, mula membuat urutan supaya pengantin mempunyai tenaga.

15. Amalkan makan telur ayam kampung seminggu 2 kali yang dicampur madu dan lada hitam yang ditumbuk untuk menambah tenaga. 

16. Bagi mereka yang banyak angin, minum air halia untuk membuang angin.

17. Belajar ilmu rumahtangga daripada org yang berpengalaman dan sudah berkahwin tentang rahsia memikat isteri supaya rumahtangga aman dan damai.

18. Jangan memuaskan nafsu dengan cara sendiri.

19. Cukupkan waktu tidur tujuh hingga lapan jam sehari.

20. Elakkan minum minuman keras dan merokok.

21. Elakkan terkena cahaya matahari kerana dikhuatiri hitam dan tidak berseri pada hari perkahwinan.

22. Elakkan minum air soya kerana ia sejuk dan tidak elok untuk alat kelamin.

23. Amalkan makan jamu supaya malam pengantin tidak mengecewakan.

24. Banyakkan baca surah-surah bagi mengelakkan gangguan syaitan. Sentiasa mengingati Allah.

25. Jangan makan sebebas-bebasnya kerana ketika ini sistem dalaman tidak stabil.

26. Jangan terlalu terdedah kepada keluarga lelaki (simpan diri).

27. Jangan berembun atau keluar malam bagi mengelakkan unsur jahat.

28. Jangan bercelak atau berlangir serta memotong rambut seminggu sebelum ijabkabul.

29. Jika telah nikah gantung tidak boleh bersama.

30. Selepas nikah mesti ada peneman tidur sebelum bersama. Ia bertujuan untuk menghangatkan lagi kemesraan.

31. Bilik lelaki atau wanita jgn dikosongkan. Mesti ada orang atau ahli keluarga terdekat tidur di dalam bagi mengelak dari dikhianati orang.

32. Jangan buat kerja yang berat. Bila pengantin membuat kerja berat, dia akan berasa penat dan mudah terjadi nya gangguan emosi.

33. Jaga pertuturan agar tidak menimbulkan rasa sakit hati.

34. Elakkan makan dan minum seperti sayur bersifat sejuk seperti kangkung, bayam, timun, jambu batu dan air kelapa agar muka nampak segar.

35. Jangan cukur kening ditakuti akan menghilangkan seri muka.

36. Sebelum menjadi pengantin, katil kelamin tidak boleh ditiduri oleh pengantin kerana tidak manis.

37. Lempar baju di atas bumbung rumah tanpa diketahui oleh orang lain bagi mengelakkan hujan turun ketika majlis berlangsung.

38. Dilarang memandang cermin ketika disolek oleh juruandam kerana dikhuatiri hilang seri.

39. Kedua pengantin dilarang bercakap ketika bersanding kerana kurang manis dipandang tetamu.

40. Jangan makan kepala ayam nanti mengantuk masa bersanding.

41. Dilarang membuang alis kerana perbuatan tersebut akan menghilangkan seri wajah buat pengantin lelaki.

42. Jangan makan bersulam air kerana dikhuatiri menyebabkan perut menjadi buncit.

43. Elakkan keluar rumah tanpa tujuan kerana angan-angan yang tinggi menjelang perkahwinan dikhuatiri bakal pengantin mengalami kemalangan jika berada diluar. 

Peringatan: Orang-orang tua Melayu dahulu selalu mengingatkan anak cucunya supaya tidak melanggar pantang larang. Melanggar pantang larang samalah dengan tidak mendengar nasihat.

There are a certain things in this rule that we can follow for the advantage. That's very good~ ❤

P dot S: Sharing is loving~ :) Have a blessed Friday everyone!

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I choose marriage

Why??

Because of Islam's great love for marriage, it has strongly emphasized that people get married as soon as possible. This is more so for women, and the Prophet (s) and Imams (as) have strongly emphasized that it is the responsibility of a father to ensure that his daughters become married as soon as possible.

The Prophet (s) said in a khutbah: "Jibra'il came to me from the Subtle and Aware one [Allah (swt)], and said: "Indeed, virgin girls are like fruit on a tree. When you take the fruit from a tree, then you do not have to fear that the sun will spoil it or that the wind will scatter it away. Similar is the case when a women is taken in the way that they are taken [meaning marriage]. There is no remedy for this problem except that they take a husband, and if they do not, then one will have to fear that they will become corrupted."

And of course, marriage is the sunnah of the Messengers of Allah and everyone must get married.

This poem is wonderful, so I just had to share it with you~ ❤

WHY MARRIAGE??  

Because of the depths of me, I long to love one person,
With all my heart, my soul, my mind, my body...

Because I need a forever friend to trust with the intimacies of me,
Who won't hold them against me,
Who loves me when I'm unlikable,
Who sees the small child in me, and
Who looks for the divine potential of me...

Because I need to cuddle in the warmth of the night,
With someone who is thankful for me,
With someone I feel blessed to hold...

Because marriage means opportunity
To grow in love in friendship...

Because marriage is a discipline
To be added to a list of achievements...

Because marriages do not fail, people fail
When they enter into marriage
Expecting another to make them whole...

Because, knowing this,
I promise myself to take full responsibility
For my spiritual, mental and physical wholeness
I create me,
I take half of the responsibility for my marriage
Together we create our marriage...

Because with this understanding
The possibilities are limitless

and our love will last forever...
 

by Mari Nichols-Haining

P dot S: It's how I feel about my marriage to Mohd Shahfizan too :')

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Dream high

YES! :D

This post is very random. I just finished all 16 episodes of "Dream High" which is a Korean drama series and now, I was lying down and listening to the songs in my hand phone. This drama was about hopes, dreams, competition, debt, and love (triangles). 

Dream High

And as always, here's the video. This song is totally related to what I'm experiencing now (DREAM HIGH xP). And just thought of sharing it with others  :) 

" I dream high, I dream
 When times get tough, I close my eyes
The moment when my dream comes true
 I replay it, and I make myself stand tall "

You know how sometimes songs bring back memories of a certain time in life? I know this is too big of a dream, but it dawned on me on how much music holds such high importance in my daily life (I can't live without it) and I just thought that. It would be so cool to do something with it for a living. Don't you think so?

P dot S: I'm going to try really really hard and I'm going to stick through it! 

YoOSHhhh~ ❤

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Thankies!

Hello dearies,

Anyways, I just wanted to do a short post, and I hope you are all well :) Life has been really hectic for me lately. I don't know how often I’ll be able to blog after this. For some reason, it seems like there isn't enough hours during the day for me to get things done. And I just hope everything goes well soon. Cause it's starting to feel like a crazy tornado around here.  

Time flies so fast, and now it's almost June. There are so many things that need to get done before the end of the year. Seeing that I'm a wedding planner for this wedding (okay, he does help too!) and, I guess it's just right time for me to have a proper wedding checklist.

Not a proper wedding checklist T.T

Lastly, deeper thanks to all brides-to-be, because you give me the ideas on how to do a proper wedding checklist and to remind me of what's left and what's going on.  I will do my wedding checklist and will post it later. Check it out~ ❤

P dot S:  Be nice to me June. And Allah, please show me the way~ 

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Food for ears

Maher zain

Please allow me to be "jiwang" today. Lulz. Well, I heard this song by maher zain just now. The first time I heard this song, my heart was peaceful and very touching. I was just amazed at the time because he sang principally in malay. Hope you guys enjoy listening to this song. But I'm warning you, get ready with tissues when hearing this song because it makes you remember the person who has always loved you! :P

"yakini hatiku kau anugerah Sang Maha Rahim
semoga Allah berkahi kita
kekasih penguat jiwaku

berdoa kau dan aku di Jannah
ku temukan kekuatanku di sisimu
kau hadir sempurnakan seluruh hidupku
oh inilah janjiku kepadamu"

Thank you Maher Zain, for highlighting the beauty of love song even more~ ❤

P dot S: Yep, I'm a romantic :)

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1 month anniversary

Hi readers,

Today

Getting engaged to someone makes you feel that you have got your soulmate. Today, in one month, I'm getting engaged to the most wonderful, loving, understanding man in the world who has always loved me just as I am. And I've missed him so badly because now, he stayed at Miri for 6 months~!! *Sigh >.<

Dear sayang,

It has been a month now and I know, today is a very happy beginning day for us. With all my love, Happy 1 month anniversary sayang! I love you.

Love,
Your fiance -sf

Phewwwittt! Hahaha. Terjiwang sekejap untuk petang ni! Hiks~ ❤

Quote of the day

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Solemnization shoes

Quote of the day

Dear Mr. Louboutin, 

I am writing to you in the hope that you will find it in your heart to help me have the wedding shoes of my dreams. Your beautiful satin, silk, lace and crystal shoes and bla bla bla are the shoes I've dreamt of owning.

Truly,

SF

Hahaha. Okay! What do you think?? A girl can dream, right? :P So pretty much most girls imagine what they are going to wear and have at their wedding. Regardless of the budget, finding a pair of statement shoes to complete the bridal look is a must. Whether you plan to go a little crazy with some huge flowers and some statement jewels, or maybe you are going trendy with zebra print, or just plain classy with a great pair of nude heels.

I've known for a long time what kind of shoes I wanted and these are the shoes I would LOVE to have as my wedding shoes or to own in general, without a doubt! I am so incredibly excited to wear them on the most special day of my life!!! Hope you enjoy the pictures.

Now, I'm drooling over the shoes on every site! And those are a few Louboutin (Pump) type of shoes in golden colour (my solemnization theme colour) .

Elegant

Sweet

Gorgeous

Simple

And I found this website --- here. The shoes also can be ordered. The founder was from Malaysia and made some custom-made shoes like below:

No brand but it's Louboutin!!

And laceeeee Louboutin pump shoes and sandals with a playful scrunch of ribbon or flower! I think Lace is vintage!

I luv it!!!

Classics

Nice

Floral

And lastly, statement like you wouldn’t believe. Here is to a few couture looks that you will probably won’t see everyday. Enjoy!

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This is definitely every girls dream shoes. Whoaa, that's a great idea! C'mon Mr. Louboutin, listen to the lady! She's got a plan! Hahaha. Hopefully, I'll get mine soon~ ❤

P dot S: Have a great weekends! ^_^

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